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25 and divorced is not something you hear about often. Being married was an amazing experience and it taught me a lot about myself and how to care about someone selflessly, but getting divorced has taught me even more. Divorce was not something I wanted, but getting divorced was the best thing for me.

Being divorced made me feel like no one would like me, that everyone in my life would always leave me, and that my life was not destined to become anything. Struggles were always present but became magnified when my divorce happened. Once I started thinking those thoughts, I knew something had to change! I did not want a life where I felt like I was a failure, I wanted to be someone, and I began craving it to the point that nothing else mattered.

As I began a journey of self-development and becoming my best, one major thing stood out to me the most. My life is not the typical 9-5 office job. I am an assistant manager of a restaurant, and my schedule is chaotic and all over the place; I never know what I am doing daily at my job. There is nothing wrong with the typical 9-5 job, but that is not my life.

Self-Development is a journey every day of your life; it should never stop. Some days are more intense than others, but most of the time it is focusing on little things that make your life better. I have so many dreams, ambitions, goals, and plans for my life that I want to accomplish them all at once. The problem with trying to do them all at once is NOTHING ends up getting done!